After Death

This is a time for the living to grieve and adapt. When you lose someone you love, life will change. You will need time and support from family and friends and other sources to continue on your own life journey.  There are also many options avaialble to create one of kind memories of your loved one. 

Burials

There are number of important aspects to consider for burials such as: type of burial, location, products required, type of service, headstone, funeral costs and cemetery fees. While many burials follow the traditional funeral service style, there are also a range of other burial options open to families.  Green burial sites is a more recent option.  It generally takes place on a designated natural burial site using biogradable coffin without the use of embalming fluids.  A Guide to Green Funerals in Australia article provides more information. 

Cremations

Deciding on being cremated doesn't limit your choices.  You still need to consider if thes ashes will be kept in an urn, be buried with other family members, scattered at a desired location or planted with a memorial plant.  

 

Keepsakes

Containers for Ashes come in a wide variety of shapes and sizes.  They are available in wood, aluminium, brass, alloy and bioderadable materials. 

 

Cremation Ash Jewellery 

There are a number of options available for cremation ash, and hair to be infused into jewellery pieces such as rings, bangles, pendants, gemstones, beads and charms.   There are a number of Australian-wide businesses that offer these services. 

 

More Keepsakes Ideas

  • Ashes In Glass
  • Ashes into Fireworks
  • Plant a memorial tree
  • Keep a handwritten note
  • Create a memory box with all the special things that belonged to your loved one
  • Clothing can be used to make cushions, quilts or soft toys

 

Organising Possessions & Decluttering

Organising and decluttering after a person dies can be difficult and upsetting, however it can form part of the healing process. 

 

  • Start with the least sentimental things
  • Ask family and friends if they would like anything before you start decluttering. 
  • Give items a new home to someone in need
  • Seek professional assistance if required

 

There are companies who specialise in emptying deceased estates, assist in downsizing and sorting.  These companies are a useful option for those who are unable, overwhelmed, time-poor or live too far away to carry out the process. 

 

 

Do Not Weep For Me

Do not weep for me for I have not gone.
I am the wind that shakes the mighty Oak.
I am the gentle rain that falls upon your face.
I am the spring flower that pushes through the dark earth.
I am the chuckling laughter of the mountain stream. 

 

Do not weep for me for I have not gone.
I am the memory that dwells in the heart of those that knew me.
I am the shadow that dances on the edge of your vision.
I am the wild goose that flies south at Autumns call and I shall return at Summer rising.
I am the stag on the wild hills way.
I am just around the corner.
Therefore, the wise weep not.
But rejoice at the transformation of my Being

- Constance Jenkins -